Yesterday was the second anniversary of Olivia’s coming out as a trans woman. I did not know her as Oliver. I met her about six months after she came out.
I feel grateful to her for all I have learned since meeting her. And I felt happy making her a cake somewhat resembling the transgender flag.
She has a family that fully embraces her. They showed up on Zoom to mark her anniversary and remind her of their support.
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And there is no one more unconditionally loving than Olivia herself (and her father). I want to remember this in times less celebratory.